Thanks to Ron Johnson and backstory for the help and recs.
I managed to avoid skyline chili, despite threats by the locals to make me go.
What I didn't tell you earlier was that I was entertaining 3 New Yorkers while in Cincinnati, so Italian was out of the question.
We stayed at the lovely Netherlands Hotel downtown. While I had some completely dreadful service at many places, we had a good happy Hour at Nada, and very nice dinner at Oceanaire, even if they were out of asparagus

. I would recommend Oceanaire to anyone looking for efficient, knowledgeable service, and with access to an expense account. Nice selection of oysters, and yes, very good steak for the non-seafood eater at the table.
Findlay Market was a great suggestion- While I had no means of refrigeration at the Hilton, I was very impressed by the market, the farmer's market section, and the crowd. In Boulder, the farmer's market is a "scene", where produce is prohibitively expensive. At the Findlay market- the inside part, the meat peddlers are very well priced, and populated by all cross sections of the population. I like that. There's a nice little wine market that's only 4 months old that was having a wine tasting, and capped that visit nicely.
I also liked Nicholson's Scottish Pub. Great Beer and Scotch list, nice service, and more than passable food. But what's Scottish about shepherds pie made from Italian sausage? Fish and chips with panko crusted fish (which I actually liked a lot)? The atmosphere was nice- big dark wood bar, lots of interesting beers on tap, and the service quite good.
And if you are in Cincinnati, the reason I am there is to facilitate a test- a potential partnership between Murray's Cheese in NYC and Kroger- a pilot program that is coming, starting in September. If you live in Cin., you are going to be lucky to have this experiment in your area- I'll tell you more as things solidify (if anyone is interested).