Not in San Diego, but in South Orange County, and am feeling much the same! I'd be happy to meet half-way or even come down to San Diego (at least north county) anytime during the week for lunch or with the DH for dinner on the weekend. 
Well, Deb, so far it looks like just me and thee, plus your husband-person and anybody else you might round up. (Though maybe some other folks might chime in here once we get things rolling...)
Given the traffic patterns and my schedule, I think a weekend meet-up would work better for me. So--what places in the south Orange/north San Diego county areas would you recommend we check out?
P.S. My sole culinary adventures in south OC have, like a lot of my recent adventures, revolved around Fearless Housemate's band. He's played a series of private corporate gigs in the fancy hotel-type venues in Dana Point, Laguna Niguel, etc., on some of which I've tagged along as behind-scenes factotum, and let me tell ya, some of those places can sure put on a spread. And there's usually a ton of food left over at these things and, hell, we're not proud ...

One night we were just finishing load-out, and the caterers were doing likewise, and there was this huge cartful of cracked crab claws, still properly iced down, just left there in the parking lot next to the event tent, with an informal invitation to partake. There is something definitely surreal about a whole bunch of tired musicians and techs standing around in the back parking lot of a luxury hotel at 2am wolfing down crab-meat for all they're worth. Not particularly relevant to our current planning, but hey, it amused me at any rate...
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