Remembered to bring the cheeses this year! The Cheese Parlor in Livermore provided the two hard cheeses (one kind of like a young Gouda and one like a very aged Cheddar), and Wegman's provided the crackers, Point Reyes Blue, and Delices de Bourgogne, as well as a spiced cranberry jam to go with the blue. (My cousins provided the other accompaniments.)
Here's the menu for 13 adults and 1 child:
To start: said cheese board, prosciutto and salami, vegetables and dip
Both roasted and smoked turkey. The smoked one really came out well. For my 8-year-old nephew who doesn't like any of the Thanksgiving sides and will pretty much only eat turkey (he doesn't like most carbs), my b-i-l made a casserole of peppers stuffed with rice and ground turkey and covered with cheese
Bread stuffing with sausage
Mashed potatoes
Middle Eastern-type salad with carrots, other vegetables, chickpeas, quinoa, dried cranberries, pomegranate seeds, and an orangey dressing
Cranberry-orange relish
Sweet potato casserole with streusel topping
Malbec to drink (I don't know if the pinot noir or zinfandel got opened)
Dessert: pumpkin pie, some kind of apple bake, Brooklyn blackout cake (my cousin's request from Dad after she heard that it won 2nd prize in the county fair), cookies, See's dark chocolate assortment