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14 minutes ago, Wilfrid said:
Opposite experience. I was given so many Oxycodine after each of my hip surgeries that to this day, years later, I still have a large supply. And they still work (I only touch them if I have serious pain for some reason).
I wish I had known. I could have helped you declutter.
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I had major knee surgery after falling at work and breaking my kneecap. They gave me less than half a dozen pain pills when I left the hospital after surgery and refused to give me a refill. Excruciating pain-- including throughout physical therapy. I literally had to relearn to walk and bend my knee. No pain management at all.
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Our medical industry needs a humanity overhaul
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@small h Thanks to my civil servant life, that was my first proffer. He currently has access to a shelter and is pursuing work opportunities (I believe). In the time I have known him, he has always been on shaky ground but I am afraid.
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I was contacted in the middle of the night by a cook that used to work with me. He sent many texts asking me for help with money. The amount was small and I thought it could be a scam. So, I waited until the morning and asked him to call me. Sure enough, it was him.
This person was an essential part of the opening team of my first kitchen as an executive chef and integral to our successes. Unfortunately, some of his habits caught up with him and after catching him doing things on shift that were not healthy, we parted ways but on amicable terms.
We have had intermittent contact since then. He had mixed success with recovery, and I helped him with some job try-outs and leads, but ultimately, he left the city and has been living elsewhere.
Well, I was not expecting to find out that he is back in town, but alone and abandoned by his family, homeless and experiencing grave health issues with a grim prognosis. I am so indebted to this person and feel such confusion over whether I have done all the right things... and not capable of helping them in the ways I wish I could. I am a bit stunned.
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I'm haunted by a horseshoeing that seems to be happening in which the extremes on both sides are meeting at a place where they agree that this version of bigotry is acceptable and justified by certain events. Unacceptable and terrifying.
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Ugh. I'm sorry. The worst injuries I have seen have been with Mandos and Slicers.
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On 6/20/2026 at 7:32 PM, StephanieL said:
Slicing mishap with the mandoline. I'll be OK. 🙂
Please use the cutting guard or a no-cut glove! Both are a little cumbersome, but beat the alternative. Sorry. Hope you heal quickly. Keep it clean and dry!
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Any interest in hitting Mt Pleasant for some BBQ?
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13 hours ago, MitchW said:
I fell asleep at a Billy Joel concert there once!
Yeah, but I think even Billy Joel has probably done that. 😂
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Who knew that falling asleep at the NBA Finals on an international broadcast was even a part of the President's responsibilities??
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A focused, zen-like chaos
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Beg, Borrow or steal.... still up 1 nothing.
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He was such a distinctive player and personality. A huge influence well beyond Jazz and the horn, he influenced so many rock and metal guitar players from Vernon Reid to Page Hamilton.
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I feel like there is enough disdain for these prices to cover the Boss and multiple sports franchises.....
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A man of substance and we have so few of those left.
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This list is an incredible resource for me to ignore and never think about again.
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13 hours ago, small h said:
Returned to my old Morningside Heights stomping grounds to see a mini-Special Guests / Five Chinese Brothers reunion, and a few tears may have been shed!
My brorher went. Couldn't make it. Seem them so many hundreds of times. I'm glad Wally and Mark were playing with them and that the Father of Cubism was honored.
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56 minutes ago, small h said:
Me, too, but only because my husband likes it. It’s diverting, but my tolerance has plummeted for shows in which a hot young female character pursues a less desirable older male character who just happens to be played by one of the show’s producers.
OMG.... we saw the movie "Over Your Dead Body" this weekend and what jumped out immediately was the age difference between Jason Segal and his female co star. Another old white man that is irresistible to a beautiful, young woman even though he has virtually no redeeming qualities. Barf.
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On 4/24/2026 at 10:13 PM, MitchW said:
Yes, this hit eG the day it happened.
She was an early eG person, and Chowhound too.
RIP, “voyager.”
One of my earliest Chowhound friends. 😢
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There ain't no good guy, there ain't no bad guy
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He was a chef that I really admired growing up. He was one of the people that defined the NY dining scene that created a path for people like me. He was also tirelessly generous with his time and supporting charitable initiatives supported by the industry.
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Made my dad a Pastrami for Passover....
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Depressing Stuff
in What's that got to do with anything?
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Same!