Heavens - it's soon, isn't it!?
MyKong, you sound like you're well in control of everything. Your flowers sound amazing (LOVE the limes & hydrangeas), as does the dosa station, as do the double wedding days. I suspect that you'll be really glad to have had two full days of wedding when it's all over. I was happy just to have had a quiet civil ceremony the day before my "real" one, as it kept the whole event from flashing by too quickly to be remembered.
Sleep well over the next few nights and enjoy the champagne on the days. All the very best to you both.
And btw, like Lippy I am positively gagging for photos of all this. No pressure, or anything. (Well okay, Lippy is far too elegant to gag. But I'm not, and I am.)