I remember when I first joined Mouthfuls, and highly recommended Sam's Butcher Shop (a small artisan smokehouse, that was closed on Sunday, and not really open to the public) in Moscow, PA. Barry decided, without calling, to take the long train ride to Sam's on a Sunday. He knocked on Sam's door catching him by surprise. Sam told him he was closed, and asked him where he found out about him. Barry mentioned my name, and Sam gave him some bacon and sausage that he had around the house.
I always enjoyed reading Barry's posts. It seemed like he was knowledgeable in just about everything.
I was fortunate to be invited to a dinner party at a former Mouthful member's house, where Barry was also invited. I was so nervous and intimidated, because I thought that such a well read person like Barry would just ignore a commoner like me. However, he couldn't have been more welcoming and down to earth.
That was Barry's superpower. He could converse with a Nobel Peace prize winner or 'regular Joe' without making the regular Joe feel inferior.
May you rest in peace Barry, and hopefully find your beloved wife.