We combined the twins' birthday with Thanksgiving and celebrated Sunday, day before yesterday, breaking most traditions as individual requests were met.
Ham, stuffing, (store bought) turkey gravy, cranberry sauce, naked baked yams (slathered with butter at table). cauliflower in Amatriciana sauce (a restaurant discovery and choice of birthday boy), mile high chocolate carrot cake, special order bakery apple pie (again for birthday boy).
My New England focused father would have been horrified, but current family members' itches were scratched.